Happiness or sorrow is an option

When u r at the lowest in yr life and seems helpless with no way to go, what wd u do? Seek guidance and doa as much as u can for Allah SWT to extend His blessing to you. Sabar and tawakal. Redha. You have a choice to endure it as long as u can or u finds ways to resolve the problems. Learning the value of being patience. Understand the underlying message and appreciate the experience. But then, there must be effort to solve the issue. Sabar is not about berserah saja....mesti usaha cari penyelesaian. Stay positive. Still, only u can make yrself happy and of course, dengan izinNya.

Somehow, looking at life and its packaged sorrows we tend to become angry and asked ourselves, why me??? blaming others wd be another approach when handling dissapointement to ease that sorrow. Denial wd also become an option. But the problem still lingers on. Worrying abt it is eating u slowly bit by bit and soon yr health will be affected. U can talk about it with someone whom u can trust but If u r not the one who prefers talking abt it with others, then what? Then, nothing. Handle it alone and try to stay sane?

There is balance in life. on a positive note, choose to look at life happiness...those joyous and wonderful moments. Dont worry so much. If u spend so much time lingering around negative issues, makes life burdened with sorrow and for all u know u will leave with so much hate and disgust in yr heart. U might 'come back' as a disturbed spirit due to unsettled issues....(who knows)....and seek vengeance at those who brought unhappiness into yr life....(can ar????)


I like this phrase....'life is short....buy that shoes!'