Our doa for yr happiness always

When yr children were young kids, we were their world. The happiest of moments when they come running to you, hug you when they see yr face when u fetched them at the baby sitter’s. It was like the 10 hours of absence made them Missed u so much, the face of relief and happiness.  

Well, not anymore. they r now have grown to become adults. They have minds of their own. We r no longer their reference point, we r unable to express our point. we r just....irrelevant. We cannot offer advise coz if they want some they will ask.

We have somehow become their enemy. We have become ignorant coz we just don’t understand them. That is what they said...

Im not fortunate like most to be able to spend time with their parents until they r old and grey. Im not fortunate to be able to talk to them like friends, to be able to cook for them, to take them for holidays of places they only see on tv.  To celebrate their birthdays, to pamper them. 

Im only able to miss them, to wonder what wd  be their favourite food, colours, places they wd want to go. Wonder hw wd it be like to have long conversations with them to talk about life, about their grandchildren, seeking advice....

Well...they r my children after all. I will forgive them again. 

We will forgive them again...and again...and again...coz we will always doa for their happiness always